A little bit of Turbulence.

Direct Answers - Column for the week of July one, 2002. Our marriage reception was to be held in a marquee in my in-laws' garden.

On Sun. she verbally attacked me at their home.

My fianc, a counsel, loves me much and thanks his bro for introducing us. I do not know what to do about our marriage. My fianc want to try for a reconciliation, but I'm not sure if I am able to excuse her after a scene full of such loathing. A delay at the ticket counter, a business deal gone awry, and you changed into a target. She knows you are in no position to retaliate. You're like the worker of a business who have to control her tongue before a rude client. Do you picture your marriage in a tropical paradise? Maybe you see yourself exchanging vows on the warm sand beside an aquamarine sea or sailing off into the nightfall with 10 of your dearest pals to enjoy a marriage banquet and the impressive views. If you're widowed, you are needed to supply the death certificate of your partner ; if you're divorced, you have to offer a document establishing that you are legally divorced. It can be mailed to you if time is a controversy but delays and complications have been often encountered. You can pick one of their packages or create your own.

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Should I not feel fury when she is saying now it's over and done with? Isn't this a case where the neatest thing is to allow her go and get on with my life? The neatest thing is to allow her go and get on with your life. The chestnut which fits is "too little, too late. If now she stayed, you'd think change was unnecessary.

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