Thursday, April 16, 2009

How Men Can Date Online successfully

By Gail Jones

People have taken to online dating like ducks take to water because it works or, at least, it can work. Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that they have been chatting to online.

All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen and, I must say that they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That's not only wise but vital. So what is a nice guy to do? You aren't a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for the right girl for you.

You have to|must| be patient above all else. Don't face-to-face. She will only think that you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.

Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and your job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually, she will discover the truth anyway and then you are back to square one.

A picture really is worth a thousand words. So an idea would be to post many pictures of yourself carrying out your daily activities and make them full body, not just of your head. After all. if you were dating a girl in the real world she would not just see your head, would she?

Once the discussion has been started meeting face-to-face for the first time, try suggesting that you should meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she might bring a friend with her, if she wants to.

At the end of the day, you have nothing to hide, have you?. You have been truthful about yourself and she has already seen a few pictures of you. Therefore, the only thing left to do is to make her feel safe meeting you.

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